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How do you define procrastination? For many people
procrastination is something that they associate and identify
themselves with far too easily. The challenge is that once you
identify with a behavior (positive and negative) it becomes
part of who you are and your experiences and actions are
filtered through this identity.
We can define procrastination as "task aversion" which is the
irrational delay of an intended course of action. Translated
from the original Latin meaning, procrastination quite
literally means ‘in favor of tomorrow’. As human beings we are
always pursuing ways of being better off – everything we do, we
do with a positive intent. Although procrastination seems to
contradict this fact, it actually illustrates a very important
point. What we do, or fail to do, is not purely the result of
our conscious choices, but often the result of factors we are
not aware of consciously. When you procrastinate, at some level
of your unconscious thinking, you believe that taking the action
will leave you worse off than actually taking the action.
To change this negative tendency, you need to do two things.
Firstly you must remove the association and ‘attachments’ that
you might have with procrastination. Realize that you are NOT a
procrastinator. Although you might procrastinate at times, you
cannot afford to limit yourself by defining yourself by your
behavior. Secondly, you must redefine procrastination in such a
way that it will motivate and empower you instead of limiting
you.
The way we define things for ourselves will determine the way
we interact with it. If you see procrastination as a chronic
problem that you were born with, then it is likely that you
will struggle with it all your life. If you define
procrastination as a bad habit that you need to deal with at
some point in the future, then it will control you. If you see
procrastination as something you cannot overcome then you will
probably be right.
If you define procrastination as a negative tendency that you
choose to put aside, then you will be empowered to take action
despite procrastinating. Whether you CAN do something is rarely
the result of your ability. It’s almost always a case of
motivation. Motivation is nothing but an inner drive that
compels you to action, and gaining leverage on yourself is a
powerful way to find the necessary motivation.
There is a definition of procrastination that can do just that.
I choose to define procrastination as the thief of time. When
you think about it you will realize just how true it is because
procrastination is what keeps you immobilized and stuck in
inaction. Time is your most valuable and your most precious
asset. People go to extreme measures to protect their money and
their possessions, but do very little to ‘protect’ their time –
the one thing that money can never buy. Learning to value your
time, is a powerful strategy for overcoming procrastination and
getting the most out of your life. When you value something you
will look after it and protect it.
Your time is limited. Have you ever wondered how many days you
have in your lifetime? At first blush you might guess that it
is a hundred thousand or even a million. In fact, if you grow
to be 70 years old your entire lifetime will only have 25 550
days. If you are 30 now, then you’ve only got another 260 000
hours left – and a third of this will be spent sleeping.
You have just as much time as Bill Gates, Mother Theresa, Steve
Jobs, Oprah Winfrey or any other person on this planet. The only
difference is in the way you use your time. Don’t allow
procrastination to steal your most precious asset.
Instead, see procrastination as a call to action. It is likely
that what you are procrastinating about is something that you
‘must’ do. See, what we don’t do and what we don’t face
controls us. But when you face it and you do it, you liberate
yourself and it no longer has any control over you. If you have
this sense of urgency and awareness that your time is precious,
then you won’t allow the thief of time to hold you down. What
you get out of yourself does not rely on your ability. It
relies on how much of your resources you can get access to and
this is almost exclusively a psychological exercise. By
changing how you define procrastination for yourself you can
start to change this internal conversation and empower yourself
to take action and make things happen.
About The Author: Deon Du Plessis from
http://overcoming-procrastination.com is a former chronic
procrastinator who never managed to get anything done. He now
teaches some of the most powerful strategies for overcoming
procrastination in A Course Of Action, a FREE online course.
You can enroll at http://www.selfimprovement-gym.com
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